Talk with Tara | Dating, Divorce, & Women’s Midlife Wisdom

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In this episode I sit down with certified wellness coach and professional matchmaker Erica Botoff to talk about what really works in midlife dating. We get honest about how to rebuild confidence after divorce why feminine energy matters more than a perfect body and how successful women can stop leading with their masculine on dates and still keep their power.
I ask Ericka what men actually look for beyond looks how to prepare for a first date so you feel like a ten the biggest mistakes women make on dates and why kindness and self respect are non negotiable. We talk about anxious attachment what to do when he does not call back when to talk about commitment and sex and how to be clear about what you want without scaring someone off.
If you are a woman in midlife who wants a real partner not just another situationship this episode will help you get honest about your standards your style and your self worth so you can attract a man who is truly ready to love you.
To learn more about working with Ericka Bothof as a matchmaking client or as a free confidential candidate you can connect with her on Facebook under the name and send her a direct message.
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In this episode I am bringing back one of my favorite formats, the Dear Tara segment. I answer real questions from women just like you about holidays, loneliness, dating, and finding love in midlife.
I talk about what to do when your kids are with your ex for the holidays and you are home alone, how to tell if you are lonely for a partner or simply missing your old life, and how to enjoy the holidays without a romantic partner without feeling like the whole season is incomplete. We get into the big one too, whether it is too late to find real love in your fifties, and why you can sometimes feel even lonelier after a party or a date than you did before you went.
I also share a bit of my own story. I went to film school, earned an MFA in screenwriting, optioned a screenplay, and then walked through a very painful time in Los Angeles that led to years of writer block. Now I am writing again and working on a very juicy fiction book on my new Substack, and I would love for you to read the first chapters and tell me what you think.
If you want to send in your own Dear Tara question or be part of the online group I am planning for women in transition you can get in touch with me here
Instagram@talkwithtarapodcast
Emailtalkwithtarapodcast@gmail.com
SubstackMy writing and book chapters are on my Substack, just look for Talk With Tara or follow the link in my Instagram bio.
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In this episode, I’m sitting down with integrative health and mind–body practitioner Alisha Slaughter to talk about something so many of us quietly carry: trauma, nervous system dysregulation, and the way it all shows up in our bodies—especially in midlife.
I share why I’m seeing words like trauma, somatics, and nervous system healing come up over and over again with my own listeners and friends, and Alisha helps us unpack what those terms actually mean in real life. We talk about how trauma doesn’t just live in our memories, it lives in our bodies—and why so much of what we haven’t processed can rise to the surface when our hormones, identities, and lives are all shifting at once.
Alisha explains the difference between PTSD and complex trauma (CPTSD), how early childhood experiences and lack of attunement can wire our nervous systems for constant scanning and people pleasing, and why no one’s trauma can really be “compared” to someone else’s. We also get into attachment styles, corporate trauma, grief, and those subtle but powerful ways our bodies say, “I don’t feel safe.”
From there, we move into somatic healing, what it is, how it works, and simple ways to start. 
Alisha share how to notice where activation lives in your body (like my stomach clenching when a certain email hits my inbox).
She also shares why gut health is foundational for hormones, mood, and inflammation.
If you’re feeling exhausted, frayed, or like everything is hitting you at once in this season of life, this episode will help you put language to what you’re feeling and offer gentle, doable steps to start creating more safety, self-compassion, and support in your own body.
Connect with Alisha, she offers a free 30-Minute Wellness Strategy Call: Book via her website to explore what’s going on in your body and walk away with three personalized wellness actions.
Website: myalchemy.life
Instagram: @wellnesswithalicia
Email: myalchemylife@gmail.com
 

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In this solo episode, I share my midlife dating practice, how to show up on first dates with confidence, curiosity, and high-value boundaries. You’ll get the exact questions I ask (beyond “What do you do?”), how I lean into feminine energy without people-pleasing, why taking it one date at a time saves your sanity, and how to stop chasing the wrong men by raising your standards. I cover listening like a pro, pacing intimacy, saying no to last-minute plans, and keeping your life full (friends, hikes, joy) so you’re choosing from wholeness, not scarcity.

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In this episode, former top model turned spiritual mentor Eden Amadora shares the real story behind life on the runway and what it took to walk away from glamour and chaos to reclaim her voice, heal from a toxic relationship, and embody authentic feminine power. We dig into what Kundalini energy really is, how to tell the difference between a spiritual emergency and awakening, and why balancing feminine and masculine energies creates genuine confidence, boundaries, and self trust.
Eden explains inner union in practical terms, how music supports the nervous system, and what modern priestess work looks like for everyday women who want purpose, presence, and love without losing themselves.
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Connect with Eden at edenamadora.com and on Instagram at @edenamadora.
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Listen to Eden on Spotify here https://open.spotify.com/artist/00uncuCapC5VnWNUnwo6MM and hear her single Angel Wild here https://open.spotify.com/album/6NFtbWTOR7VM7w9kvcubyj.

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Welcome back to Talk with Tara. In this episode, I dive into money after divorce and how to rebuild wealth in midlife with financial pro Katy Song, CFP and MBA from UC Berkeley’s Haas School of Business. Katy brings over 17 years of experience helping women and families take control of their financial futures with confidence.
We talk about creating a shame-free money plan, building an emergency fund in a high-yield savings account, the truth about Roth IRA vs traditional 401k, how ETFs like the S&P 500 and QQQ fit into long-term investing, and how to budget without deprivation. We also get real about overspending, housing decisions after divorce, negotiating during mediation, and breaking free from fear or scarcity mindsets around money.
If you’re navigating divorce, separation, or any midlife transition, this conversation will give you practical steps to rebuild your finances, protect your credit, and grow wealth so you can live with more freedom and less stress.
 
Connect with Katy Song:
Website: katysong.com
Email: katy@katysong.com
Instagram: @katysongmoney

Dating in midlife can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to. In this solo episode of Talk with Tara, I’m sharing everything I’ve learned about navigating online dating with confidence, safety, and success.
From overcoming the fear of being alone to handling ghosting with grace, I open up about my own experiences, unfiltered truths, and strategies that actually work. You’ll hear how to spot red flags, protect your privacy, attract high-value partners, and most importantly rediscover yourself along the way.
If you’re ready to stop settling and start dating smarter, this episode is your ultimate playbook.
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Email: talkwithtarapodcast@gmail.com
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In this episode I get real with Christine Marie Mason on the beauty and grief of midlife. Christine is so wise and inspiring. She's a six-time founder and CEO, futurist, healer, and advocate for women’s wellness and liberation. Christine is the founder of Rosebud Woman, co-founder of a meditation center and medicinal farm in Hawaii, and author of nine books, including her latest, The Nine Lives of Women.
Together, we explore the sensual, sexual, and spiritual journey of women across every life stage. Christine shares her insights on tantra, feminine energy, intimacy, and purpose, while offering guidance on how to embrace midlife as a time of renewal and creativity. We dive into friendship, community, grief, reinvention, and how women can flourish physically, emotionally, and spiritually at every age.
From discovering Dharma to reconnecting with pleasure and power, this conversation is a roadmap for living fully, loving deeply, and aging vibrantly.
Connect with Christine Marie MasonWebsite: ChristineMarieMason.comRosebud Woman: rosewoman.com
Connect with Host Tara PoulinEmail: talkwithtarapodcast@gmail.com or @talkwithtarapodcast on IG
 
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The job market in 2025 looks very different from just a few years ago—fewer roles, more competition, and an entirely new set of expectations. In this episode of Talk with Tara, I sit down with Shandy Dunn, a seasoned recruiter and talent leader with over 15 years of experience connecting top-tier talent with opportunities at some of the most respected companies in tech.
Shandy brings both realism and compassion to the conversation as we dive into:
Why the current job market feels three times harder than it used to be
How AI and hiring systems are reshaping opportunities—and what you can do to stay competitive
Practical do’s and don’ts for resumes and LinkedIn profiles
Why confidence, creativity, and networking are more important than ever
Tips for mid-career professionals re-entering the workforce or navigating career transitions
 
Whether you’re a parent stepping back into full-time work, a professional navigating layoffs, or simply curious about how to stand out in today’s market, this episode offers strategies, support, and inspiration to help you move forward with confidence.
Connect with Shandy: LinkedIn: Shandy Dunn(You can also reach out to Shandy if you’d like to learn more about her Connecting support group.)
Connect with me:Instagram: @talkwithtarapodcastEmail me at talk talkwithtarapodcast@gmail.com, I love hearing from you!

If you’ve ever considered explant surgery, breast lifts, mommy makeovers, or just wondered what really happens behind the scenes in plastic surgery, this is the episode for you.
Tara sits down with Dr. Rajaie Hazboun, a fellowship-trained plastic, reconstructive, and aesthetic surgeon at the prestigious MAAS Clinic in Pacific Heights, San Francisco. Known for his personalized approach and natural-looking results, Dr. Hazboun dives into everything from breast implant removal to internal bras, tummy tucks, liposuction, Ozempic-related weight loss, fat grafting, scar healing, and how to actually find the right surgeon for you.
Whether you're feeling curious, cautious, or ready to book a consult, this conversation is loaded with the honest answers you won’t get on social media.
Book a consultation or learn more about Dr. Hazboun:www.maasclinic.comMAAS Clinic | Pacific Heights, San Francisco(415) 625-3230
Tara’s note: “This episode is not medical advice—please consult with a board-certified plastic surgeon for any procedures.”
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